The Drama Triangle and Power Play: Are We Healing or Repeating Patterns?
BDSM is built on power exchange—but without awareness, it can become a stage where we unconsciously reenact toxic dynamics instead of breaking free from them. Enter the Drama Triangle—a psychological model that explains the cycles of Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor that keep us trapped in unhealthy relationships. Are you surrendering from a place of strength, or because you don’t believe you have a choice? Are you leading with respect, or are you playing the hero to avoid your own shit?
Enneagram and Kink: Obliteration, Objectification, and the Sexual Instinct
Enneagram and Kink: Obliteration, Objectification, and the Sexual Instinct explores the deep psychological pull of BDSM through the lens of the Enneagram's sexual instinct. Why do some crave ego death, objectification, and complete surrender? How does power exchange become a tool for transformation rather than trauma repetition? Drawing insights from John Luckovich’s The Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram, this article unpacks the connection between kink, intensity, and self-discovery—challenging shame and embracing the raw, primal truth of desire.